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The Truth About Being Sexy and Attractive After 50

The Truth About Being Sexy and Attractive After 50

Society has been telling women for...well, forever, that after 35 or maybe 40, we’re no longer worthy of attention. But that’s far from the truth. The fact of the matter is that women over 50 are rewriting the playbook on sexiness - and we’re more in control now than ever before.
sexy and attractive woman over 50

The headlines are everywhere: 60 is the New Sexy, 50 is the New 30, and 70 is the New 50. It doesn’t take a genius to figure out everyone wants to feel sexy and attractive. But society has been telling women for…well, forever, that after 35 or maybe 40, we’re no longer worthy of attention. After 50, we are most definitely on the proverbial shelf. Not even a decent shelf. I’m talking about the shelf at the back of the pantry where things like that 5-year-old can of cranberry sauce sit covered in dust.

That was Then

Smiling wife serving dinner; black and white image; old fashioned

Think of our mothers’ generation. The majority were housewives, and they didn’t have a lot of acceptable options for turning back the hands of time or at least trying to. In 1956, Clairol introduced at-home hair color with a brilliant campaign, “Does she or doesn’t she?” The Miss Clairol product made it possible for women to use that evasive “only my hairdresser knows for sure” to avoid divulging the secret that they used hair color to craft an appealing public self. If a woman went so far as to have an actual facelift, she disappeared for two weeks to a “spa vacation” and returned with tightened skin that was explained away as the result of simple rest and relaxation.

This is Now

Beautiful woman in a turtleneck

At times it can feel as if you aren’t doing something to rejuvenate your appearance; you are in the minority. Women no longer trudge off uncomplainingly into a twilight of sensible shoes and elasticized waistbands, awaiting the grim reaper – who just happens to be the only one who still invites them to his parties. We do not accept being labeled as unattractive or uninteresting, and we certainly will not smile while being undervalued.

Women over 50 make no bones about the effort they put into looking sexy and attractive or the procedures they undergo to put mother nature in her place. Some even share before and after photos on Instagram. Even I posted a picture of myself with layers of foil folded into my hair. My mother would kill me if she knew I shared my highlights with the world.

Subtle Changes

I noticed a while back that friends of mine were showing up at happy hour with impossibly long, beautiful lashes. Since I never notice things like this, I knew something was up. They filled me in on the eyelash extension trend, and I have since been paying attention. They are everywhere and on women of all ages who are willing and able to invest in the once or twice-a-month ritual. If you look in the mirror and wonder what you can do about looking so exhausted, washed out, or just blah, eyelash extensions are a real confidence booster. Don’t want to commit to extensions? Try these tips.

Bold eyebrows have also become a thing for women of all ages. Where the 90s was about “the thinner the eyebrow, the better” (which I always thought looked dreadful), now, full brows are springing up all over. Not Frida Kahlo, but close. Gels, pencils, tints, or professional coloring can help fight the fading, thinning, and graying of brows for those who want to regain that definition that frames your eyes and makes you feel sexy and attractive.

Our Minds and Bodies

4 women in white t-shirts, friends

Many of the women I know polish their hands, feet, bodies, and faces. They whiten their teeth and apply spray or self-tanner regularly. They purchase sexy lingerie and are confident enough to assess the latest fashion trends and apply only what works for them. No more going whole hog into something just because a designer or magazine tells them they must. (I’m looking at you, embroidered bomber jacket.)

Women “of a certain age” are savvy enough to know there is a power that comes with physical confidence. We now know there are more benefits to spending time at the gym than just checking that box for our doctor – or checking out that cute guy on the stair stepper. It goes beyond physical health and speaks to our mental wellness.

A Return to Sexy

Happy couple dancing in the kitchen

With the understanding that exercise in the form of cardio, weights, and yoga can keep us not only healthier but feeling and looking better, we are miles ahead of where we once were. Add to those benefits a plethora of available treatments, including hormone replacement therapy, vaginal rejuvenation, and personal lubricants that significantly reduce the postmenopausal issues that once signaled the end of fun in the bedroom.

Many empty nesters have found a return to playful affection and sensuality. Where it was once challenging to be in the mood after the requirements that a job and family placed on you day in and day out, sharing some quiet space without interruptions, listening to music, and actually talking to each other again has resulted in a significant boon in the romance department.

There are multiple online dating services that cater to mature adults. I know women who are juggling more dating partners now than they did in their 20s – and enjoying every minute of it. At this point in life, intelligent women know what they want from a partner – in bed and out, and they aren’t interested in compromising.

I suppose the lesson from all this is –

Yes, high heels and high cheekbones are sexy and attractive, as is unblemished skin.

But so is self-confidence, a healthy body, a good set of lingerie, and knowing how to use it.

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