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Dating - New Love

Yuck! When the man on the dating app is married…to your friend

A Cautionary Tale I feel soiled, sullied, icky. Bad. Horrible. I unknowingly betrayed a good, long-time friend. “How?” you ask. Here’s the story. A few months ago, a man emailed me from a dating site new to me. We struck up a nice IM conversation. He hadn’t posted a pic,…
  • Dating Goddess |
  • September 11, 2019
Dating Over 50 Affiliation
Dating - New Love

Dating Over 50: Define Your Need for Affiliation

A gal pal shared with me the concept of people having different needs for affiliation — how much “people contact” they need. What’s Your “Need for Affiliation”? As you would guess, some have a very low need for affiliation — someone like the Unabomber who is content to live like…
  • Dating Goddess |
  • March 17, 2019
Marketing 101 Online Dating
Dating - New Love

Marketing 101 for Online Dating

Today I was strolling down the fresh men aisle at my favorite dating site. No one was enticing enough to pick off the shelf and examine more closely. I wasn’t even drawn to read any labels (profiles). What was wrong? Lack of marketing. With very few exceptions, online daters don’t…
  • Dating Goddess |
  • March 5, 2019
Dating Etiquette
Dating - New Love

Your Guide to Mid-Life Dating Etiquette

I was recently asked me for some rules of etiquette for when one is beginning to date. While etiquette is, according to the dictionary, “the customary code of polite behavior,” there are no hard and fast rules. What is rude to one is not a big deal for another. The…
  • Dating Goddess |
  • January 24, 2019
Conversation Skills
Dating - New Love

Dating After 50: Do You Suffer From Verbal Diarrhea?

I had two dates recently with successful, nice, intelligent, educated men. However, I noticed something that I find extremely common in dating — they both had no idea they were droning on in great detail about people or stories that held nearly no interest for their listener (me!). I work…
  • Dating Goddess |
  • December 15, 2018
Dating is Hard
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I’m Glad Dating After 50 Is Hard

I bet you’re thinking, “”I’m glad dating is hard’ is an odd approach. Why would anyone want dating to be hard?” At first blush, it sounds strange. Let me explain. The late Art Berg, was one of the best motivational speakers in the world until his death at age 39…
  • Dating Goddess |
  • December 2, 2018
Dating - New Love

10 Tips for Successful Over 50 Dating

You’ve been single for a while. You would like to have a special man in your life. But how? Women reentering the dating scene after a long absence need to first examine if they are ready to date again. After all, not only is there the possibility of being swept…
  • Dating Goddess |
  • October 21, 2018
is he just not that into you
Dating - New Love

Is He Just Not That Into You? Really?

You may know that Greg Behrendt is the more visible co-author, with Liz Tuccillo, of the wildly popular advice book for women, He’s Just Not That Into You. In it they tell us, among other things, that if a man you’re dating doesn’t call you at least once a day,…
  • Dating Goddess |
  • February 16, 2020
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Are You Scaring Off Men by Being a Poser?

Talking about dating with a midlife single friend he asked, “Do you know men’s biggest dating fear?” Dating a psycho? No. Getting an STD? No. Those are all high on the list, but it’s not what I’m thinking of. Well, many women’s fear is abandonment, but I doubt that’s men’s…
  • Dating Goddess |
  • January 29, 2020
why men don't tell you you're pretty
Dating - New Love

Why Men Don’t Tell You You’re Pretty

Some men tell you they think you are attractive on the first or other early dates. Some will never tell you. For two months I dated a man who never said he thought I was attractive. In frustration at his aloofness, one day I said to him, “I don’t even…
  • Dating Goddess |
  • January 22, 2020
Providing feedback on a date's behavior can be a tricky path to navigate.
Dating - New Love

When Do You Tell Your Date About Behaviors that Annoy You?

Bothered by a behavior? When do you tell your date? There seem to be several camps on this: Immediately when the annoyance happens, even on the first date. Say something so he can modify his behavior. No matter how small the irritation, you should tell your date when it happens.…
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  • October 7, 2019
Going Dutch on a date is fine --if your date is okay with it too.
Dating - New Love

Go Dutch or Accept Your Date’s Offer to Treat?

Does Who Picks Up The Check Change When Dating at 50+? I was talking to a gal pal about how to deal with paying for a meal when you’re first dating someone. Go Dutch? Or let them pay? Friend: I always insist on paying for my own meal. At least…
  • Dating Goddess |
  • September 23, 2019

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